Shared experiences of living with pain

In preparation for a talk I gave about what it’s like living with pain, I asked a few questions on my blog to see what other people experience. Here’s a round-up of the answers people gave.

Thank you to all those who shared their experiences with me. 32 people took part and I’m grateful for the time and energy you spent.Read More »

Reblogged: Enforced rest vs chill out time

Great quick blog explaining to healthy folks how our rest isn’t by choice and it’s not even a “duvet day”, it’s because we’re too ill to do anything, and trying to will result in even worse symptoms. Having a chronic illness isn’t a chilled out lifestyle choice, it’s debilitating.

My heart is set on living ...

I’ll make this quick for reasons that will become apparent. I wrote yesterday about putting myself into ‘Standby’ mode.I realised that I could’ve done a better job of explaining that after people told me to enjoy my rest and relaxing time, and that I’ve earned it.

I’m not managing to do a great deal this weekend and I’m mostly lying about in bed. If you have a busy life working or parenting or whatever, then that might sound ike an attractive proposition. However, I’m not happily ‘chilling out’. I’m stuck in bed because my body isn’t capable of doing much else at the moment. It’s frustrating, dull and impractical. Alas, it’s not fun.

My symptoms are numerous and can vary wildly at any given time. This weekend’s particular version of ‘standby’ mode essentially involves feeling really ‘shite’, due to nausea, pain, palpitations and breathlessness, and with fatigue, some unsteadiness and…

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